I’m sorry about that pain you are feeling. You know the one I’m talking about; the hardship that you didn’t ask for that keeps you up at night. The one you think about or grapple with in the shower. The one you talk to your significant other, best friend, or therapist about. I’m sorry you’re… Read More
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Do You Need A Protocol or Just Context?
My oldest daughter Jacquelyn turned 15 in January and got her learner’s permit. Ever since, I have spent a significant amount of time riding around with her as she learns the ropes of driving (and sharing in her joy and excitement). While I enjoy our rides through neighborhoods and around (and around and around) giant… Read More
A Heartfelt Thank You
The Cone of Shame Veterinary Podcast Hits 1 Million Plays The first episode of the Cone of Shame Veterinary Podcast was a Skype call with my friend Dr. Sarah Boston. She had written an article about “Emotional Blackmail” that really spoke to me, and I decided I wanted to talk to her about it. I… Read More
What Does It Mean To Be Strong?
Over this past year, I’ve found myself reexamining a number of beliefs I had formed as a child. Some of these reflections come from the fact that I’m getting older. Some come from my wife’s cancer diagnosis last year. And some are simply a recognition that the world is changing and I would like to… Read More
My Plate Runneth Over: My Top Tip For Keeping ‘Busy’ From Becoming ‘Overwhelmed’
I love picking up new colorful phrases. I especially find joy in short sayings that express a pile of emotions in itty-bitty packages. A recent phrase caught my attention when I asked someone how they have been doing and they replied “Busy. My plate runneth over.” The combination of “my plate is full” with “my… Read More
You Deserve Credit For Your Work
The most common personal development mistake I see when it comes to working on new leadership or communication skills is not positioning yourself to get credit for your work. Yes, I’m looking at you team leads, associate veterinarians, medical directors, managers, and anyone working in corporate practices working hard on your skillset. You work so… Read More