Does Hilton have the best customer service, hire the right people or are there just nice people in this world?
I heard the words I never wished to hear again: “Your Mother has had a brain bleed. We recommend she be transported to the Thomas Jefferson University Hospital of Neurosciences and……” I am sure he went on but that was all I heard.
Flashback to my father, lying on the stretcher in the Abington Hospital’s emergency room some 16 odd years ago and hearing those words for the first time…”Your father has had an aneurysm. There is a subarachnoid hemorrhage…..,” and again they go on with pertinent information only partially retained.
Unfortunately, my father never made it out of Abington Hospital.
Despite the fact that I have prayed to never have to deal with this again, there they were; those dreaded words….hanging in midair having just left the mouth of the ER doc. He kept talking but life slowed down and I felt that I was in a state of suspended animation. There was no other moment in time but this one. Imaginary fingers leafed through the files in my mind as to how to react. My eyes were locked on the clinician’s eyes, gauging his sense of alarm. The next words I heard were: “We will ambulance her into the city. You can meet her there.”
Kindness in the City
The city? As a suburban girl, the city means only two things to me; theater or a medical conference. These are the only reason one should risk or venture into the big, scary city. To me, the city is a twisted mass of high rises blocking the sun, a jigsaw puzzle of one way streets and walkways the belch up sounds and smells of the deep, underground subway.
After admitting Mom for care and realizing this was going to take time, I decided to find a hotel within walking distance of the hospital. I knew this would minimize the trauma of having to drive back and forth from the antithesis of all things pleasant. The Hilton Doubletree Hotel was the rushed decision I had made. While securing my reservation on the phone, I gave the operator a special code for people with someone in the hospital. That is when the mundane attitude of the agent changed. “Mrs. Byard, is a loved one in the hospital?” I share that she is indeed and before we hung up, she wished my Mom a speedy recovery.
While registering at the desk, the clerk immediately sweetly says, “Oh Mrs. Byard, I understand your mother is in the hospital. I am sorry. Do not hesitate to let us know if there is anything we can do to help you during this challenging time.”
That night, tired after having walked the streets of Philadelphia and having navigated the medical system of an unfamiliar hospital, I ordered my dinner from room service. A sweet gentleman delivered the meal within the promised amount of time. As I signed the check, I mentioned how appreciative I was that they had room service. I mentioned that Mom was being treated at Jefferson University Hospital. He authentically shared his concern and asked if there was anything else I needed. I told him that there was not but that I appreciated his thoughts.
[tweetthis]”Do not hesitate to let us know if there is anything we can do to help you during this time.”[/tweetthis]
Cookies at the Door
Still heavy with the unknown, I awoke the next morning, showered, dressed in one of the three outfits I threw together in a hurry and quickly rushed out the door to stay with Mom in ICU. As I opened the door, I noticed that on the outside was a Doubletree bag with a tin of their famous chocolate chip cookies within and a hand written note from the man that thoughtfully delivered my meal: “Mrs. Byard, I hope your Mom gets better. Sal. Room Service.”
That night I ordered my dinner from room service again. The clothes I had thrown together were not suited for a restaurant within the theater district. The same sweet gentleman answered the phone and took my order. I told him how much the cookies meant to me. When he delivered the meal, he made sure there was an extra dessert and two unordered bottles of water which he placed in my room refrigerator “for later”.
The next day, I realized I had to extend my reservation another day. I called the 800 # and made arrangements accordingly. I was informed though, that I would have to check out and in again and change rooms. When I spoke to the front desk, the clerk said, “No, I will keep you in the same room and you don’t have to store your luggage.” Then she took a business card from the desk, turned it over and wrote her name and a number on it. “This is my name and personal cell phone number. I know how hard it is when your mother is ill. If there is anything that the hotel cannot help you with, please don’t hesitate to call me.”
Compassionate Service in the Clinic
So, as I sit and write this out, I wonder again, is there exemplary customer service training at this hotel? Do they provide compassion training for their staff? Or are there just extraordinarily nice people out in the world and the angels aligned for me during this time to make the journey easier?
As an employee in a veterinary practice, I also wonder, how can we manage the same sort of compassionate service? We tend to be very compassionate with our patients but often take a sideways glance from the pet parent as judgmental instead of wondering what their story is and how can we be of service.
The Hilton Doubletree Hotel hit their mark on so many levels. By entering the special code into their system, the entire staff was alerted that this customer was not a tourist nor on a business trip. This was a person that needed special attention. Their concern made me feel safe when all things in my life felt anything but safe.
By staying in a center city hotel, I was spending money I didn’t plan on spending, I was missing work and I was worried. These are all concerns that crop up when someone’s cat blocks for the third time, when the puppy runs out of the house and accidentally sustains injuries when hit by a car, or when the older dog presents in seizure for the first time. We often get defensive when they mention how expensive veterinary care is. Well, the reality is; it is expensive, they weren’t prepared for it and they are scared. Just as I was. This is a reminder to me and hopefully you, that there can never be too much empathy.
The good news is that my mother is at a rehab and the doctors expect a full recovery. As I ponder that blessing, I am reminded that Gandhi said; “To give pleasure to a single heart by a simple act is better than a thousand heads bowing in prayer.”
[tweetthis]There can never be too much empathy.[/tweetthis]
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ABOUT THE AUTHOR
Vickie Byard, CVT, VTS (Dentistry), CVJ has been practicing at Rau Animal Hospital in Glenside, Pennsylvania since 1985. She is an international speaker, educator and consultant on veterinary dentistry and she is the founder of PetED Veterinary Education and Training Resources. PetED has 2 focuses. The first is as a resource for veterinary practices looking to increase their standard of care by making available well-respected experts to guide that process. PetED has also has produced a dental education video series for pet parents. For more information: www.PetED4VetCE.com
